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Pitanje čitatelja: Molim vas pomozite mi da razumem svoju rođenu kartu
Bok !
Naišao sam na vašu web stranicu. Po profesiji sam liječnik i prolazim kroz teška vremena, uglavnom zbog toga što nisam u mogućnosti donijeti pravovremene odluke, a još je jedna stvar mučna s maštovitim stranama Pisceovog mjeseca koja je u mom slučaju neodoljiva. Uočavam strijelsku tromost i netaktičnost u sebi i nisam sposoban unijeti takt u svoje postupke i imam poteškoće razmišljati manje emocionalno i reagirati na situacije na manje emocionalnoj osnovi i koristeći logiku i razum. Zanimanje za astrologiju razvio sam se tek nedavno kad čitam članke, povezujući medicinske dokaze sa astrološkim nalazima i razvijam vjeru u to i uvijek razmišljam u smislu da ljude znam više o astrološkim crtama i to se pokazalo dobrom vježbom. (Dobivene potpune informacije o rođenju) Moram detaljnije znati o crtama mojih karaktera, kao i ako mi možete pomoći u definiranju određenih drugih aspekata drugih planeta i njihovoj ulozi itd., Kao i da me informišete o razumijevanju kuća i kako su one u mom slučaj u dubini; i, koji je moj znak potomaka? Mislim da je moja osobina Strijelca u sukobu s mojim piščevim mjesecom, a također nije u skladu s znakom uspona u Biku. Hvala na Vašem vremenu
~ Dr. F.
Adamov odgovor:
Dragi dr. F,
Pogledali smo u vašu kartu i otkrili nekoliko stvari koje izgleda surađuju s onim što ste napisali u svojoj e-pošti. Bitka između stvarnosti i mašte i pitanje pravodobnosti u vašem odlučivanju zapravo je uobičajena za aspekte Neptuna u vezi s Merkurom. A potreba za taktom u postupanju s ljudima u vašem svijetu uobičajena je za ljude s aspektima Mjesec-Venera i Merkur-Venera. Imate sve ove aspekte. Ne bih se brinuo zbog taktičkog pitanja - sumnjao bih da ih već imaš, o tome brineš samo više nego drugih. Ono što bih se brinuo je da iako ti aspekti čine da razmišljate i osjećate se izuzetno dobro, oni također dodaju razinu saučešće u vašem stavu prema životu koji biste možda željeli izbjeći. Istina je da vaše Strijelce Sunce kvadrat vašeg Mjeseca Riba. Međutim, uzeo bih to kao znak snage. Tu postoji sukob između vaših emocija i vaše inspiracije, ali možete naučiti prevladati sukob i to će vas učiniti boljom osobom. Jedna od vaših snaga leži u drugom aspektu, a to je vaš trina Moon-Mars. To vas čini jakom voljom. Osim toga, imate aspekt Merkura-Plutona koji vas čini marljivim radnikom. Položaj vaših planeta u raznim kućama naizgled ukazuje na javni život. Vaša odabrana profesija liječnika ima smisla. Položaji na čvoru mogu učiniti borbu između ostanka u kući i karijere. S tim ćete se morati baviti dok idete zajedno, ali sveukupno će vaša raspoloženje biti prema dogovorima izvan kuće. Jednom kad postignete ravnotežu, bit ćete sretni.
Znak potomka bilo koje osobe je onaj koji je nasuprot uzlaznom. Znak potomka je znak koji se nalazi na vrhu sedme kuće, a u vašem je slučaju Škorpion.
Rado ćemo odgovoriti na bilo koja druga pitanja i nedoumice.
-Adam
Pitanje čitatelja: Zašto uvijek mislim da sam privlačan Škorpionima?
Bok Annie ????
Želio bih znati postoji li nešto u mom grafikonu što bi sugeriralo da sam nekako osuđena na sastanke sa Škorpionima, hahaha. Sve 3 moje ozbiljne veze bile su s ljudima ovog znaka Sunca, a čini mi se da se ne mogu odvratiti od njih. Čak i kad sretnem nekoga novog, bilo da je to osobno ili čak na internetu, ako mi se uopće učini zanimljivim ili atraktivnim, spreman sam se kladiti u svaki posljednji cent koji imam da je Škorpija. Još nisam pogriješila. Mentalno sam se sigurno kladio i do sad već osvojio oko šest tisuća dolara. Molim pomoć! (Priloženi potpuni podaci o rođenju).
Stupanj A.
Lisain odgovor:
Poštovani,
Čudno je kad se to dogodi, zar ne? Premda nisam naišao na oštru teoriju o tome zašto se takve stvari događaju, kad sam pročitao vaše pitanje, bio sam prilično zabrinut vidjeti je li vaša Venera u Škorpionu ili čini jak aspekt Plutonu (vladajući Škorpionov planet), ili oboje. Vaša Venera je u Škorpiji, iako ne kontaktira Plutona. Razlog za to je taj što, kad ljudi imaju tendenciju da ih privlače ljudi s određenim znakovima, gotovo uvijek sam na njihovim ljestvicama pronalazio „odgovore“ na njihovom položaju Venere. Međutim, mnogi ljudi kroz život privlače ljude koji nemaju mnogo veze sa svojim znacima / položajem Venere, tako da ovdje nema jasne formule. Mora biti nešto drugo u grafikonu što bi ukazivalo na ovu tendenciju, ali još je nisam našao!
Venera nam pokazuje u čemu uživamo, što nam se čini privlačnim i ugodnim. Još jedno područje ljestvice koje je povezano s užitkom i privlačnošću je peta kuća. Vaša je peta kuća prilično “skučena”, u kojoj su smješteni vaše Sunce, Pluton, Sjeverni čvor, Mars i Uran. Vaga je u jeku, a tamo je i Škorpion. Imate i Mars u Škorpionu, tako da u Škorpionu imate obje planete povezane s ljubavlju, romantikom i seksualnošću! Ovi Škorpioni koji vas privlače možda samo prikazuju sve "prave" signale koji vas vode. Po mom mišljenju, nema takve sudbine ili sudbine u strogom smislu te riječi. ???? Ali, ne možemo uvijek pomoći onome što nam je intrigantno i uzbudljivo!
Hvala na tvom emailu! Javite mi ako želite znati više ili ako sretnete Strijelca koji vas vodi. ???? Imate na umu, astrologija ima puno više od sunčevih znakova, i ne bi li bilo zanimljivo da ovaj ne-Škorpion ima Mjesec ili Veneru u Škorpionu? ????
-Annie
Pitanje čitatelja: Što znači Mars / Venera / Mjesec u Vodoliji?
Što znači Mars / Venera / Mjesec u Vodenjaku? Zatim tu je uspon. Ne znam što su. Znače li različita doba dana, određene godine ili što? Rođen sam 30. siječnja, ali koji sam ja ??
Lisain odgovor:
Većina ljudi zna svoj "znak", ali to je samo znak koji je Sunce okupiralo u vrijeme vašeg rođenja. Da biste saznali gdje su se u vašem rođenju nalazili Mjesec, Merkur, Venera, Mars, itd., Morat ćete se posavjetovati s efemerisom, internetskim efemerima ili astrologom. Na ovoj stranici imamo stranicu koja olakšava otkrivanje položaja vaših planeta na mreži, ovdje pronađena. Alternativno, možete mi poslati e-poštu i ja mogu dati vaše podatke, ali trebat će mi vaši potpuni podaci o rođenju, uključujući vaš dan rođenja, godinu, mjesto i vrijeme. Ako ne znate svoje vrijeme, neću vam moći reći ascendenta. Vaš Mjesečev znak možda nije točan na ovaj način, ali više je nego vjerojatno da ću vam moći dati do znanja vaše znakove Merkura, Venere i Marsa. Ti dodatni detalji će dodati malo dubine vašim očitanjima!
-Annie
Pitanje čitatelja: Što će moj povratak i Saturnov tranzit do desete kuće značiti za mene?
BOK, KAKO SI?
Zovem se K iz Engleske, upravo sam otkrio ovu web stranicu i pitao se hoćete li biti ljubazni da odgovorite na moje pitanje.
Kao što znate, Saturn se seli iz Blizanca u Rak. Imam Saturna u Raku u svojoj desetoj kući - što to znači za mene tijekom narednih nekoliko godina? Također se približavam svom povratku Saturna, ja sam Blizanci sa Vagama u usponu i Mjesecom Djevicom. (Priloženi potpuni podaci o rođenju).
Puno hvala, nadam se da možete osvijetliti moje pitanje.
Doviđenja
K
Lisain odgovor:
K,
Saturn upravo ulazi u vašu desetu kuću, a planet će nastaviti prolaziti vašu desetu nekoliko godina. Ovo je prvi put da Saturn ulazi u vašu desetu kuću u vašem životnom vremenu, a često se podudara s vrhuncem karijere. Što god započeli u karijeri, prije 14 godina, dolazi do svog vrhunca. Prije otprilike 7 godina, postali biste više publici s ovim „projektom“, a sada je najvjerojatnije vrijeme kada žanjete nagrade (ili posljedice) svog poteza u karijeri. Ako ste dobro planirali, ovaj put simbolizira realizaciju ciljeva i određenu količinu prepoznavanja. Ako se u karijeri / životu nađete frustrirani i ograničeni, moguće je da ćete shvatiti da put koji ste odabrali nije uzeo u obzir vaše osobne ciljeve.
Povratak Saturna sa sobom dovodi sa sobom vrijeme kada biste mogli preispitati kakav ste i što ste postali, u ovozemaljskom smislu. U vašem životu uglavnom postoji želja za nečim čvrstim. To je kao da do danas živite u reakcijskom načinu - na uvjetovan način - i neka vrsta oslobađanja od kondicioniranja na povratku Saturna je istodobno neka frustracija i osjećaj da vas život ograničava. Mnogi ljudi, u vrijeme prvog povratka Saturna, počinju sa jasnijom shvaćati svoje odgovornosti kao odrasli i više ne osjećaju kao da je život ispunjen bezgraničnim mogućnostima. Mnogi se malo bore u ovoj fazi svog života kad dođu do zrelijeg pogleda na svoje "mjesto" u životu. Opseg te borbe uvelike ovisi o osobnosti svakog pojedinca. Neki će se osjećati neizmjerno ograničeno i razočarano. Ostali će se rado sresti na svom putu i dočekati novostečenu zrelost koju su stekli. Vaš povratak Saturna dogodit će se sredinom 2005.
Uzeto zajedno, sasvim je moguće da ćete naporno raditi na svom izabranom putu i možda ćete doći do zaključka da morate ciljati svoje ciljeve onim što uistinu želite učiniti, a ne onim što ste osjećali da morate učiniti. Saturnov tranzit kroz 11. put dogodit će se ubrzo nakon vašeg Saturnovog povratka, a ovaj tranzit pomoći će vam da se pomirite s onim što uistinu želite raditi i što želite biti. Ako se u narednoj godini naiđete na neke frustracije, znajte da je sve to dio procesa rasta - dio vašeg pronalaska, da tako kažem, i učenja kako definirati svoj život na način koji je istinitiji vašem unutarnje vizije i želje, a ne ono što ste osjećali da se od vas očekuje.
Ako imate dodatnih pitanja, pošaljite mi e-poštu. Najbolje za vas,
-Annie
Pitanje čitatelja: Možete li mi pomoći razjasniti neke stvari o kompatibilnosti?
Nedavno sam počeo pregledavati vašu stranicu, kafeastrologiju,
i ja to volim! Međutim, nisam siguran kako protumačiti
značenje kompatibilnosti između mene i mog
partner. Jako sam zainteresiran i tamo sam primijetio
su i pozitivni i negativni aspekti u našem
grafikon kompatibilnosti Zadovoljan sam svojim
odnos, međutim samo tražim uvide
u budućnost i našu konačnu kompatibilnost. ja
pročitajte negdje o "aspektu Pepeljuga" koji treba učiniti
Chiron se odnosi na srodne duše, a ja jednostavno ne mogu reći
ako imamo takav aspekt Pepeljuga. Hoćete li pomoći ???
ili barem dati neki uvid u našu kompatibilnost.
Puno ti hvala !! (puni podaci o rođenju)
N
Lisain odgovor:
N,
Ovdje se više nego vjerojatno mislite na teoriju aspekta Pepeljuga koju je postavilo Društvo mudraca. To je vrlo zanimljiva teorija. Malo sam ga pogledao, ali nisam istraživao teoriju i nisam stručnjak za tu temu. Međutim, podijelit ću s vama ono što znam o tome.
U osnovi, ideja je da ljudi koji dijele "vezu Pepeljuge" u svojoj sinastriji imaju čvrstu vezu. Ova veza, prema knjizi Magi Astrology: Ključ uspjeha u ljubavi i novcu , tumači se kao "kombinirane sudbine" i smatra se, između ostalog, i najmoćnijom vezom i pokazateljem braka. Na način na koji ja razumijem, Pepeljuga se pojavljuje kada se Venera spoji, trine, paralele, kontra paralele ili povećava Chiron druge osobe. Slična veza između Jupitera i Chirona, te Neptuna i Chirona, također bi trebala biti korisna.
Vi i vaš dečko zapravo imate vezu između Venere i Chirona paralelnim aspektom. Paralelni i kontraparalelni aspekti nisu toliko popularni u sinagoškoj astrologiji, a oni se određuju uspoređivanjem deklinacije planeta svake osobe. U vašem slučaju, vaš je Chiron paralelan sa njegovom Venerom. Vi također imate podržavajući aspekt (trine) između vašeg Jupitera i njegovog Chirona. Međutim, prema teorijama društva Magi, imate i Saturn sukob između svojih ljestvica: njegov Chiron je nasuprot vašem Saturnu i ovi su planeti također u paralelnom aspektu. Ovo je opisano kao aspekt "lupanja srca". Također, vaš Saturn kvadratuje njegovu Veneru - još jedan aspekt Saturnova sudara.
U osnovi, imate pokazatelje i za vezu između Pepeljuge i za Saturn Clash. Prema onome što sam pročitao, Magijsko društvo sugerira da se ljudi vjenčaju kada tranzitiraju Chironom, pojačavaju aspekt vaše Venere kako bi pomogli problematičnim sindikatima.
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Ne koristim izričito te teorije u svojoj vlastitoj praksi, iako oni iznose uvjerljiv slučaj. Još se nisam zagrijao na cijelu teoriju, jednostavno zato što su oni stavili velik naglasak na Chirona kao važan pokazatelj veza između dvije osobe. Iako se slažem s idejom da je Chiron vrlo važan element u natalnoj i sinastrijskoj astrologiji, ne znam bih li mu dao veći značaj od ostalih planeta i točaka. Chiron je usporeni "planet", i ako bi, na primjer, moja Venera bila trine Chiron natalno, mnogi ljudi rođeni u istoj godini kao i ja, moj bi Chiron stavio svoju Veneru. Međutim, zaintrigirao me je cijeli sustav i mislim da je izvrsna ideja uključiti Chirona u sinastiju. Vjerujem da Chiron ima određenu "sudbinsku" ili karmičku kvalitetu koja apsolutno zaslužuje pažnju i daljnje proučavanje.
Ono što vidim između vaših karata je izvanbračna veza između njegova Sunca i vašeg Mjeseca i široka trina između vašeg Sunca i njegova Mjeseca. Interakcije Venere i Marsa su snažne. Ono što imate je dubok i obično ugodan odnos koji će imati pravi udio izazova koji će vas učiniti zauzetim i stimuliranim!
Samo želim napomenuti da se ne treba previše zaokupiti POSEBNIM aspektima u sinastriji, bilo da se smatraju “dobrima” ili “lošima”. Sinastriju možemo iskoristiti za istraživanje obrazaca koji postoje u našim odnosima i pokušati doći do dna problematičnih obrazaca koji u suprotnom nemaju puno smisla. Na primjer, interakcije između Sunca i Mjeseca te između Venere i Marsa smatraju se izvrsnim aspektima u sinastriji. Međutim, imam osobno iskustvo s vezom koja je imala trinu između Sunca i Mjeseca i sekstil između Venere i Marsa - i na kraju to nije uspjelo. Okolnosti koje okružuju ljude u vezi moraju se uvijek uzeti u obzir. Ponekad se odnosi koji se osjećaju sjajno ne funkcioniraju u stvarnom svijetu, a odnosi koji žive u paklu traju cijeli život.
U vašem slučaju vidim tako čudesnu kreativnu mješavinu energije između vas i vašeg dečka. Imate Veneru trine Mars u vašem kompozitnom grafikonu, a obje planete su u jakom aspektu Urana - vrlo uzbudljivo, ugodno i kreativno! Sastavljeno Sunce i Merkur snažno su povezani s Jupiterom, uspostavljajući odnos koji vas uistinu usrećuje i razmišljate i učite - proširujući svoje vidike i perspektive - jedni drugima. Između Mjeseca i Neptuna postoji težak aspekt, a vaš složeni Mjesec nema drugih glavnih aspekata. To može značiti da ćete se s vremenom možda jedno za drugo smatrati potpornim ne na emocionalnoj razini koliko želite.
Nadam se da sam bio od neke pomoći! Pošaljite mi e-poštu ako trebate da nešto pojasnim.
-Annie
Pitanje čitatelja: Mogu li moj vjerenik i ja biti sretni?
Ja sam Djevica s mnogim pravima. Moj zaručnik je Ovan s istim Ovnovim osobinama. Planiramo se vjenčati za 2 mjeseca, imamo puno toga zajedničkog iako sve što sam pročitao kaže da smo nespojivi. Kao Djevica to se mene tiče. Volim ga dublje nego što sam ga ikad prije volio. Već smo 3 godine zajedno s nekoliko problema. Pretpostavljam da je moje pitanje: Hoćemo li se vjenčati i možemo li biti sretni dok smo toliko različiti u astrološkom smislu. (Priloženi podaci o rođenju).
Hvala, W
Lisain odgovor:
W,
Usporedba energija partnera mnogo je dublja od astrologije Sunčevog znaka, tj. Interakcija vaših Sunčevih znakova (Djevica i Ovan) nije jedini čimbenik koji bi astrolozi uzeli u obzir prilikom analize vašeg partnerstva sa svojim zaručnikom. Kad bi samo bilo tako jednostavno! ????
Pogledao sam obje vaše karte, a prvo što sam primijetio je da imate Aries Ascendant –G Sunce se nalazi u vašoj prvoj kući. Ovaj prekrivač označava svojevrsnu atrakciju "na licu". Puno je ugodnije nego što zvuči! Njegovo Sunce čini zdravi trine za vaš Mjesec u Strijelcu, a ovaj je aspekt jedan od najcjenjenijih aspekata u sinastriji između muškarca i žene. To je aspekt koji često drži ljude na okupu, čak i bez obzira na teškoće. To, međutim, nije garancija, ali definitivno pomaže prirodnim ritmom i protokom u vezi. To je udoban aspekt koji će vam pomoći zaglađivanje grubih točaka u vašem odnosu.
G-ov Saturn pada mrtvo na vaše Sunce, koje spaja vaš sjeverni čvor i kvadrat vašeg Mjeseca. Ovo je snažan aspekt - mnogi bi rekli jaka karmička veza. Imate lekcije koje trebate učiti jedni od drugih i vjerojatno ćete ostati jedno s drugim barem dovoljno dugo da ih iskusite. Ovaj aspekt može biti u bilo koje svrhe u smislu kako se "igra". Za jednu je to pokazatelj dugoročne, jake veze. To će mnogo ovisiti o načinu na koji G postupa s tim aspektom, jer on može ili pomoći prizemljivanju i vođenju, ili vas može natjerati da se s vremenom osjećate kao da se ugušite.
Vaš složeni grafikon je vrlo složen. Ispunjen je izvrsnim, kreativnim aspektima, a ima i svoj dio aspekata koji se smatraju „problematičnim“. Budite sigurni da svaki složeni grafikon među parovima ima svojih uspona i padova. U stvari, „lagan” složeni grafikon rijetko postoji između ljudi koji imaju čvrstu vezu.
Stanje Venere u vašem grafikonu sugerira mi da ste imali nekih poteškoća u ljubavi u životu - vjerojatno više nego većina. Vaš konjuktor Venere Neptun (u Vagi u 7. kući) kaže mi da se trebate potruditi da uđete u bilo koji odnos sa širom otvorenim očima. Imate tendenciju podcijeniti vlastiti doprinos vezi i cijeniti i prihvaćati možda više nego što biste trebali. S tim ne želim reći, prihvaćanje drugih, negativna kvaliteta, u svakom slučaju. Problem je u tome što češće od nas naša nesigurnost djeluje protiv nas u životu - posebno u dugoročnim odnosima jedan na jedan. Želite vidjeti dobro u drugima, i to je vrlo fina osobina. Kad izgubimo negativnost, gubimo perspektivu i postavljamo se na veliko razočaranje.
Ljudi Venere-Neptuna skloniji su od drugih da svoje veze čine više nego što jesu. Istina je da na svijetu nema superjunaka. Znate da je vaša Venera napunjena Neptunom kada slikate veličanstvenu sliku svog partnera, uljepšate ili čak izmislite priče o svom partneru koje su u skladu s vašim vlastitim snovima o ljubavi i date izgovore za ponašanje koje ne odgovara vašem idealan. Ne treba drugima biti opravdanja - oni su upravo takvi kakvi jesu. Ili ti se sviđa ili mrziš, i to je to! Kad odbijate vidjeti ljude, bradavice i sve ostalo, tada se postavljate za pad. Možda ste takav obrazac u životu vidjeli već u prošlosti. Možemo naučiti samo iz naše prošlosti.
Vidim snažnu vezu između vas i G-ja, vrlo jaku, prilično zdravu i ponekad zahtjevnu. Veze između vas su dovoljno jake da traju cijeli život, u bilo kojem obliku ili obliku. Želim vam najbolje, a mislim da ćete uz malo rada imati upravo to!
-Annie
Pitanje čitatelja: Što je moj Ascendent? Bok,
Surfao sam po raznim web lokacijama astrologije i otkrio da izgleda da postoje dva različita sustava pronalaska mog rastućeg znaka (ascendenta).
Ali ne samo da se vremena izračunavaju različita, ja dobivam različite uspone za svaki 'sustav'! (tj. uglavnom rastu Škorpioni kad vidim vrijeme rođenja od 18-18 sati, ali na drugom sustavu dobivam Vaga u porastu tijekom vremena rođenja od 7-9 sati. To sjecište u vremenu rođenja je neobično.)
Čak i ako se uzme u obzir da je moja država 8 sati ispred GMT, rezultati i dalje ne potkrepljuju!
Sada sam vrlo zbunjen što je moj istinski znak u usponu i koji je sistem "pravi".
Molim vas, recite mi zašto su ti sustavi različiti i moj istinski ascendent. Osjećam da je Škorpion, ali nisam previše siguran ... (podaci o rođenju) M.
Lisain odgovor:
M,
Jedna od lijepih stvari na Internetu je to što lako možete izvući profesionalnu natalnu kartu. To u potpunosti uklanja zbrku koja proizlazi iz savjetovanja s rastućim tablicama s znakovima. Naravno, točnost nečijeg rođenja često je još uvijek problem!
Vaš Ascendent je Vaga. Najbolje mjesto za dobivanje besplatne natalne karte je Astrodienst. Ako mislite da Škorpija ima smisla, to bi moglo biti zato što su i vaš Mjesec i Venera u 8. kući, što je Škorpiona prirodna kuća. Također, Venera je vladarica vašeg Ascendenta i suprotstavljena je Plutonu (planetu koji vlada Škorpionom!).
-Annie
Pitanja čitatelja: Koji su neki od mojih talenata? Što bi za mene mogao biti dugoročni izbor karijere?
Bok,
Posljednjih nekoliko mjeseci bio sam u dubokom razmišljanju o tome gdje želim da mi ide život i što će me na kraju učiniti uravnoteženim i sretnim. Nažalost, ne znam u kojem bih smjeru trebao krenuti. Imam intenzivnu strast prema svim vrstama glazbe (mogu pjevati, miješati glazbu na gramofonima i igrati tipkovnicu), a također istinski uživam u druženju i komunikaciji / interakciji sa svim različitim vrstama ljudi (uglavnom u zabavnom, zabavnom okruženju), Imam živopisne snove o tome kako ću jednog dana postati netko velik, na vrlo pozitivan, ovozemaljski način. Pomisao da živim jednoličan život, imam dosadan posao od 9 do 5, itd. Izuzetno me deprimira i učinit ću sve što mogu u tome da to spriječim - i tu dolazi moje pitanje - gledajući sve aspekte Što mislite, prema mojoj rodnoj karti, što bi moglo biti dobar dugoročan izbor karijere ??? Trenutno sam menadžer u velikom kinu (i volim svoj posao), ali znam da mogu biti i mnogo više ... ..
Gledajući moje aspekte, što mislite, što su neki od mojih talenata (Sunce zajedno N.Node? Sunčev sekstil Jupiter i Saturn? Sunce lagano trinirani Uran?), I što će uzrokovati nelagodu
osjećaji i tjeraju me da uspijem (Mars točno kvadratni Jupiter i Saturn? Mjesec točno nasuprot Uranu?) - stvarno se zbunim kad analiziram vlastiti grafikon, pokušavajući "shvatiti" što sve to može značiti za mene ... stranica navode da je moje Sunce u četvrtoj / petoj kući, kažu da je "tehnički na kraju kuće 4, dakle tumači se u kući 5" - pa imam osobine obje kuće u mom suncu, ili što?
Navedeni su potpuni podaci o rođenju (datum, vrijeme, mjesto).
D
Lisain odgovor:
Bok D,
Vaš grafikon je vrlo zanimljiv. U stvari, ima vrlo preciznu suprotnost između Mjeseca i Urana i slično tijesnu povezanost Jupitera i Saturna, koji zauzvrat čvrsto stupa na Mars. Neobično je naći toliko točnih aspekata u jednom grafikonu. Kvadrat između Marsa i Jupitera / Saturna pada odmah pod kutom, pa ako bih vas išta "zadržavao", pogledao bih taj aspekt. Ovaj aspekt može vas natjerati da koračate tamo gdje se drugi boje, ali ako se više puta suočite sa problemima vremena i onim što se čini "lošom srećom", ovaj aspekt možete sigurno naznačiti kao mogući sukob.
Jupiterov konjunkt Saturn, izvučen iz konteksta vaše karte, može sugerisati praktičnu osobu koja je možda malo previše vezana za ono što bi trebalo, a što ne bi trebalo (ili što nije u redu i što je ispravno), ali koja posjeduje izvrsno osuda. Takva osoba nije previše optimistična ili previše oprezna. Jupiter, planet optimizma i rasta, temperira Saturn, planet opreza i ograničenja - i obrnuto. Međutim, uzete u kontekst vašeg grafikona, sa sigurnošću možemo predvidjeti da ta ravnoteža nije uvijek na mjestu, jednostavno zbog tijesnog kvadrata s Marsa. To, po meni, sugerira neprestani unutarnji sukob između vjere (Jupiter) i straha (Saturn). Vaše velike vizije i snovi (Mars-ov kvadrat Jupiter) uvijek se mogu osjećati preteški s prisustvom Saturna ovdje. Možete se mučiti zbog onoga što biste trebali, a što ne biste trebali učiniti; a tragove nesigurnosti i straha od uspjeha možda će potkopati vaš optimizam i vjera (Saturn). Vaše Sunce seksistira vezu Jupiter-Saturn i vjerojatno je "ključ" ili kreativno rješenje sukoba na trgu.
Kao što vam se čini da znate, trgovi nas pokreću. Previše kvadrata i možete završiti udarati glavom o zid veći dio svog života. Nema kvadrata, a vrlo lako se vraćate iz života bez ijedne borbe. Bez protivljenja se ne možemo uspješno staviti u tuđe cipele, dok nas previše toga može učiniti nemoguće neodlučnim. Čak i kada je riječ o trzajima i sekstilima - naš talent - životno iskustvo govori nam da ponekad naši talenti djeluju protiv nas, a naši "neuspjesi" rade za nas. Jedan primjer koji pada na pamet je osoba koja ima akademske mozgove koje drugi vide kao "mozak". Kao rezultat toga se od njega očekuje previše ili premalo. S druge strane, osoba kojoj je cijeli život to bilo "lako" možda neće biti tako povoljno primljena kao onaj koji je pokušao, propao i pokušava ponovo. Vaš grafikon ima lijep spoj aspekata, možda malo težak na trgovima. Imate kreativnost i nagon za uspjehom u životu. Sjetite se da vam je možda teže nego što je potrebno. Kad se osjećate kao da ne uspijevate ili ste „sve što možete biti“, drugi bi mogli razmišljati potpuno drugačije! Sjeverni čvor u četvrtoj kući često donosi sa sobom mnogo pritisaka na sebe kako biste bili i učinili više. Vaša očekivanja od sebe mogu biti postavljena nepotrebno visoka - drugi bi na vas mogli vidjeti priču o uspjehu dok ostajete nezadovoljni.
Također, Marsov trg do Jupitera / Saturna vjerojatno će vam dati ogromnu vožnju. Možda ćete otkriti da iz nekog razloga gravitirate životnim situacijama koje izazivaju vašu snagu. Možda ćete imati odnos ljubavi i mržnje s konkurencijom i naći se usred konkurentskih izazova više od većine. To je zato što je strah od konkurencije gotovo jednak vašem nagonu za natjecanjem!
Postoji toliko toga za reći o vašem grafikonu, a tako malo prostora da to kažete. U 3. ulici, neposredno iza četvrtog kuta kuće, imate Asinova Ovna sa svojim vladarom, Marsom, u Raku. Mars je također sektilna Venera. Izvrsni ste komunikator, možda pomalo raspoloženi (kvadrat Jupiter-Saturn), ali zaista prilično šarmantan i poticajan. Vaš Mjesec u Biku je konjunkcija Chirona i čvrsto nasuprot Uranu. Ova konfiguracija daje izvrsnu percepciju - prirodno razumijevanje zašto su ljudi takvi kakvi jesu i snažnu sposobnost pomaganja i liječenja drugih. Moon-Chiron je aspekt učitelja / iscjelitelja u njegovanju / emocionalnom smislu. Gdje god se Chiron nalazi na ljestvici, često postoji povećana - čak i akutna - percepcija i razumijevanje; ali nedostatak je što, iako domaći ima dobre namjere za druge, često se osjećaju ranjeno. (Kao Chiron, glavni iscjelitelj koji se nije mogao izliječiti).
Suprotnost vašeg Mjeseca Uranu će se odigrati u nekim trenucima vašeg života više nego u drugima. Možete biti buntovni i reći ću vam sada da ste potpuno u pravu da vam ne bi uspijevalo u svakodnevnom životu. Vaša kreativna energija dolazi u brzinom, a bilo bi vrlo teško iskoristiti tu energiju na zahtjev. Neki će dan doći u jedan popodne, a drugi će dan doći u 4 ujutro. Idealno je pronaći posao koji vam omogućava slobodu kretanja i kreativni slobodni prostor.
Mjesec u Biku u 2. kući, a nasuprot Uranu: Rekao bih da ovo sugerira jaču od prosječne vezanosti za posjede i sigurnost, što će vam biti izazvano u životu. Više nego vjerojatno, vaše će financije fluktuirati više od većine dok na duhovnoj razini više ne shvatite sebe. Dio vas treba biti bogat, dok se drugi dio pobuni protiv tog cijelog koncepta. Mjesec vlada vašom četvrtom kućom korijena, sugerirajući predah od prošlosti i potrebu da se redefinira život odraslih stavljajući svoj osobni pečat na njega.
Mislim da je tvoje Sunce u Lavu u 5. kući. Iza je pete kuće, ali Lav je na vrhuncu pete, a Leoov vladar je Sunce - i to sjedi zajedno s vašom petom! A, Sunce u petom je zabavljač prirodnog rođenja. Nisu svi s ove pozicije dovoljno odvažni ili dobivaju priliku to ostvariti, ali postoji veliki talent upravo tamo. A Sunce povezuje Sjeverni čvor, što sugerira veliku potrebu za nekom vrstom svjetlosti. Vi ste prirodni vođa i često ćete biti korišteni kao vodeći primjer u životu. Ostali se prirodno obraćaju vama kao upute, a vi imate talent za "umrežavanje". Što god radili, dobro radite i često u životu osjetite osjećaj sudbine. Samo budite oprezni da u međuvremenu uživate u životu!
Također, trica između vašeg Sunca i Urana je jača nego što se čini na prvi pogled. To je zato što Merkur također lagano trinira Uran u drugom smjeru - sredinom Sunca i Merkur tačnije trinira Uran. Prirodno ste jedinstveni i originalni - drugi će primijetiti vašu potpuno jedinstvenu perspektivu više nego što je primijetite. Mislim na ove tribine kao talent "ljudi". Lako prihvaćate i uživate u ljudima iz svih slojeva života. Vaša sposobnost da naporno radite sigurno će vam naći mjesta. Lako sam vas mogao vidjeti kako radite izvan domaćeg dijela vremena (Merkur, vladar 6., 4.), ali ne u prisnom smislu. Mislim da vam položaj menadžera vrlo dobro odgovara. Ako želite više od toga, naravno, nastavite. Izuzetno ste kreativni!
-Annie
Pitanje čitatelja: Zašto sam toliko nedosljedan u poslu i ljubavi?
Bok,
Prvo, htio bih vam zahvaliti. Moje je pitanje prilično jednostavno. ja
would like to know why I seem so inconsistent in work and love. I was in love
once, but it seems I am only attracted to men that I cannot completely have,
and if they jumble up my emotions and keep me guessing, even better. Problem
is that state is not healthy for me, perhaps because I think my feelings take
me over sometimes and I fear it. I have always “felt” different from most
people. Also, could you tell me what my natural talents might be, I am
currently in college and my interests are Psychology and criminal law, but
have not been able to completely focus and decide what I want to do with my
život. (Full birth data supplied). I am a female. Hvala još jednom.
C
Lisa's Answer:
Dear C,
You have plenty of the elements of Earth and Water in your chart, giving you a personality that is both practical and emotional. You “feel out” your environment and rely on your senses when you take in the world around you. However, your Sun in watery Scorpio is conjunct Uranus. Although you have perhaps greater than average needs for security and practical realization of your goals, the Sun-Uranus energy presents an inner desire nature that seems to contradict this. Its urge is to break down the very patterns you want for stability and security; and to break open new paths and growth opportunities. This energy bestows you with many original and unique ideas, but you may lack the right focus to put these ideas into practical use. The inconsistency you mention is likely due to this aspect. Something within you rebels against convention. This is a restless aspect, for you want to do more than you are able to. Your mind never entirely rests–too many ideas and insights may lead you to feel a lack of direction in your life.
Sun-Uranus conjunctions can also give people a love-hate relationship with being different or “odd”. On the one hand, there is a strong need to be special and unique. You don't want to be pinned down or labeled. Other times, feeling like an outsider is painful. At any rate, Sun-Uranus people are especially sensitive to their identity as an individual. When challenged, they will defend themselves wholeheartedly, even if the division causes them to feel alienated even further. It is a defensive and often stubborn position, and probably the greatest difficulty with this aspect is losing touch with the self–what one truly wants and is –because of this inner need to be contrary. You have a strong Venus (in Capricorn in the 7th house, and trine Moon and Mars) which means that, in general, you do compromise and cooperate. But Sun-Uranus is a bit of a paradox. You are frightened of being changed by others , yet you change your own mind frequently enough to be baffle those you are close to. As a result, it can be difficult to follow any one path in life. The key to dealing with this is to accept your need to be different, but to follow your heart at the same time.
In terms of your talents, you possess extraordinary intuition. Your Sun opposite Chiron suggests a talent for counseling others–you are likely far more adept at helping others than you are helping yourself! This latter issue can get better over time, and the key is self-acceptance and ridding yourself of the fear of being thwarted by others. Lowering your defenses will do wonders for you. Your Venus trine Moon and Mars in earth signs gives you personal charisma, although your Venus square Saturn might not let you truly “know” this. (In fact, this last aspect often is the root of the problem of wanting people we can't have — read the question/answer directly below this one for more information on Venus in hard aspect to Saturn). Psychology and criminal law are both, in fact, excellent fields for you. Whatever you decide to do, you will breathe new life into the field. It is probably wise to choose a career that gives you the freedom to do your own thing, at least some of the time. You won't feel comfortable with anyone breathing down your neck. Security is very important to you as well, so the best choice would be a well-established and secure career path that also gives you some breathing room. You will need to express your creativity in some way, and a job that stifles your creativity (a monotonous job, for example) will never satisfy you. You need some sense of movement, but your nerves may not be able to handle an entirely entrepreneurial position.
I hope this mini-reading is of some help to you. Send me an email if any of this is unclear!
-Annie
Question from a Reader: Will I ever get the kind of love I am looking for?
Will I ever get the kind of love I am looking for in life? (Full birth data supplied). I am married and loyal, but it seems all my life, those I loved, did not return my love the way I felt it should be, or those I didn't love, loved me. Thanks for any help.
Lisa's Answer:
Bok,
You have Venus in opposition to Saturn, right across the Asc-Dsc axis. This can make you especially sensitive to “cues” that suggest you are not loved or rejected in some way. People with Venus-Saturn in hard aspect can often “expect” rejection in issues of love and care, whether they are conscious of this tendency or not. This can often lead to negative situations in love — and bad timing or the feeling of having “bad luck” in relationships.
The key to handling this aspect is to learn to loosen up and relax. Know that you may be oversensitive to rejection — and try to gain some perspective when you feel your love is not being returned to your satisfaction. Are you truly letting love in, or is there a part of you that is scared? Could your expectations and “heaviness” in the area of relationships (you might take love more seriously than most) be getting in the way of accepting love and affection? With Saturn rising, you may feel a little “stiff” around others, you may downplay your physical appearance and feel too self-conscious to truly relax and loosen up around people you care about. You have identified a pattern in your life, and that is the first step towards fulfillment. The next step is to get to the root of the problem. You may have deep-seated feelings of being unworthy of love, even if you are able to rationalize and decide otherwise!
While Venus receives hard aspects from both Saturn and Uranus, your Moon in Scorpio forms a nice trine to Venus and sextile to Saturn. It also trines your Mars in Pisces. You are able to care for and nurture others in wonderful ways. You are intuitive and naturally attractive to others. If you can truly feel and know this, you may find you can handle your problem. You are emotional and warm underneath your more studied image to others. Saturn aspects get easier with age! You are here to learn about love and relationship, and you are capable of gaining plenty of wisdom from your experiences. You are not a risk taker when it comes to relationship, although you have plenty of original and even brilliant talents and might feel more confident in other areas of your life. Understand that you are picking up on signals that may not be there, simply because you have a seriousness about relationships and love. Let me know if you have any more questions!
-Annie
Question from a Reader: Why do I feel heaviness?
Hello Annie and Adam,
I am very happy to have found your site. You seem to really like helping people and enjoying talking about astrology.
I have two burning questions for you. I have read some books but as a layperson, I can't answer them.
1. My chart seems to be 'good', no squares and a few sextiles, but I do not consider myself a 'light', 'happy' person. In fact, even as a child I have this sense of heaviness on my shoulders. Is there something related to Saturn in my 12th House or Neptune in my 8th House? My sun sign is Scorpio and I have Aries as ascendant, but I always withdrawn from leadership and… I am a teacher. My friends usually say I am sweet and passive….
2. I married twice: marriages started and ended fast. Both husbands were wonderful people and I do believe we tried our best. Could you tell me something about my relationship tendency and also about the nodes? I have the North Node in Aries and the South in Libra. I do believe in karma and I want to know what 'lesson' people with these characteristics need to learn…
I really hope you could answer these burning questions. They have been haunting me in the last months, especially after my second marriage ended.
One million thanks,
(Full birth data supplied)
J
Lisa's Answer:
Hi J,
When considering your basic make-up and disposition, I would look at the fact that your Scorpio Sun conjuncts Neptune in the 8th house, which certainly would soften the entire personality! Also, Aries rising people are not necessarily aggressive folk, even though they are usually rather direct and sometimes impatient and impulsive. Also, look to the ruler of your Ascendant — its importance should never be underestimated, in my opinion! It is Mars in Capricorn. You have an earthy moon (Moon in Taurus) that forms a soft trine to Jupiter in Virgo. To sum up, I would say you have a strong personality with plenty of gentle/soft corners. As far as heaviness and responsibility goes, my first instinct would be to turn to Saturn. People with Saturn in the 12th house can carry a lot of “heaviness”. But your Mars in Capricorn is important as well. Capricorn is a Saturn-ruled sign, and your Mars not only rules your Ascendant, it is also the most elevated planet in your chart.
Your North Node is in Aries in the first house. The specific lesson associated with this position is to learn to depend on yourself. The tendency with this position is to only feel complete with a special partner. This often means marriage, but can extend to partnerships, such as one very good friend. The lesson here is that you will only find satisfaction in your relationships when you have learned to depend on yourself. It is easy for people with the South Node in the 7th house to make compromises in their partnerships. While some compromise is always good and necessary, the compromises can be at the risk of losing your own identity. Learning to know and love yourself — and to absolutely honor who you are — is the only path to true happiness in partnership. Avoid adjusting too much to others, get to know exactly who you are and what you need, and then honor yourself and your needs: this is the lesson of this nodal position.
Libra is on the cusp of the 7th house in your chart, and Mercury is found in that house. You need free and easy communication in your relationships in order to feel loved, appreciated, and alive. Venus, the ruler of your 7th, is in Libra in the sixth and it opposes Saturn. You may meet your partners through your work, or work closely with them. But this position also indicates a deeper feeling of loneliness and even unworthiness that you may not acknowledge. If you don't address this, you might attract people or situations that only serve to make you more insecure. There are many indicators of a strong sense of commitment and responsibility in your chart. Problems only occur when you take that too far and don't take the time to get perspective on what you should hold yourself responsible for! Your Moon trine Jupiter suggests a giving and accepting personality.
I hope this mini-reading is of help to you. If you have any more questions, or want me to explain any of the above, let me know.
-Annie
Question from a Reader: Are we compatible?
Zdravo,
Me: (birth details provided) Libra/Scorpio cusp
Him: (birth details, time unknown, supplied)
Are we compatible in a both a marital/sexual relationship?
Hvala!
Lisa's Answer:
Bok,
First things first, you are a late Libra and he is an early Pisces (even if he were born one minute into the day, with the place of birth you supplied, he would still be a Pisces). Your Sun positions are in a pleasing trine. Overlaying his planetary positions onto your chart, and I see that his Venus conjunct Mars in Aries falls at the top of your chart, in the 9th just behind your Midheaven. His Venus “turns” your natal Moon trine Pluto into a grand trine. This suggests a high level of pleasing attraction. Now, your Saturn opposes his Venus as well, and his Saturn sits hand-in-hand with your Sun. These aspects suggest some heavy ties that may not always be pleasant, but that can be quite binding.
Looking at his positions, he seems like a quiet person overall with rather powerful emotions and quite a bit of impatience when it comes to getting what he wants in love. I don't have his birth time, so it is impossible to put his planets into “context”. However, his Venus and Mars in Aries are square Uranus and opposite Neptune. His behavior may baffle you. Although he probably appears quite solid overall (Taurus Moon), there may be some erratic behavior in love that can confuse you. He may come on strong, and then drift away, and then start the cycle all over again.
You are a rather solid, relationship-oriented person who is looking for security, but you have a great sense of fun and you are rather open to new ideas and new ways of doing things. He seems to have that mix of solidness and excitement that you are looking for. Your composite chart together is a little scattered, but it shows some promising aspects. You have great potential to grow together. You are likely able to share sexual fantasies with each other, perhaps more easily than you would with others, especially at the beginning of your relationship. Try to keep this alive, because your composite Mars trine Saturn can perhaps make it a little too easy to get into routines in this department–and neither of you would be too happy with that. There will be a lot of energy to expend when you are working as a couple — try to direct this into productive things. Being idle together might not work as well (energy can be converted into arguments). Please don't hesitate to send me any questions you might have about this mini-reading, and good luck!
-Annie
Question from a Reader: I am drawn to a spiritual path but don't have a direction.
Hello Annie!
I would appreciate your interpretation of my natal chart regarding my career options. I am a
qualified Accountant (which I enjoy), but I feel drawn to a more 'spiritual' path. But I don't have a direction to follow. (Birth day, time, and place supplied).
Regards, J
Lisa's Answer:
J,
The first thing I noticed about your chart is that it has all the major aspects in a rather balanced proportion. This suggests that you have a nice combination of talents, drive, insight, and so on; and it gives me the sense that you can truly do what you want. However, your lack of direction is the issue.
You have three planets in the 12th house, and I would imagine that these contribute much to your desire for spiritual expression. Your Sun in Sagittarius is conjunct the Ascendant, but hiding behind it. This is a powerful position! You have a strong desire to express your will and creativity, yet something holds you back. It may be shyness or fear. Part of you is uncomfortable putting yourself on display, so to speak. In your chart, the Sun rules the 9th house and Jupiter is forming an almost exact conjunction to your Midheaven. These positions suggest to me that you must teach and guide others in some fashion! You have something to share with the world and I am guessing that you at the very least have a vague feeling or urge to go that route.
I think your chart reveals much of your current struggle. Your Moon in the 6th house of work rules your 8th house — this very much describes your current profession. The 8th house rules, amongst other things, other people's money. So this position suggests accounting as a workable job for you. However, that same Moon squares your Midheaven, and the Midheaven rules one's higher calling.
Your Mercury in a fire sign in the 12th house means that you listen and learn on an intuitive, feeling level. Your intellectual feelers are strong–you absorb a lot from your environment and you might sometimes feel overwhelmed by all that you take in. You will benefit from some mental training of sorts–learning to sort out some of the more negative things you pick up from others. Your Moon is in the earthy sign of Taurus and it is found in the 6th house. Even though you may not always act in a materialistic manner, you have an inner voice that always reminds you of practical concerns. You need stability, and whatever you do ultimately ends up producing concrete results. You bring your emotions into the work you do–you might find that your moods are changeable when it comes to daily routines and getting the job done. The possible problem that I can see is that your Moon in Taurus in the 6th almost requires a steady, stable job. This is essential for your sense of security. Your 6th and 12th house emphasis show a need to be in service to others. My best advice is to try to combine the practical with a more spiritual position. Even if this is teaching others or counseling, these lines would come naturally to you and will help you express more of yourself in the work you do. You have wells of intuition and psychic ability to draw upon–water signs are found on the 4th, 8th, and 12th houses of your chart, which means that your base instincts are powerful and you have enormous potential to heal others. Translating these talents to a career will perhaps happen more easily for you than for many others. Your chart ruler is Jupiter and it is found at the very top of your chart–conjunct the Midheaven. Self-expression will ultimately find a voice, and helping others by sharing your knowledge is a path I can see as most fulfilling and rewarding. You have loads of integrity–that is very clear in your chart. Pluto will be transiting conjunct your 12th house Sun starting in March 2018(but its effects should be felt earlier, and perhaps already) and, later, your Ascendant. These transits will awaken those dormant desires for growth and expression. Neptune has been transiting conjunct your Mars, perhaps bringing with it some spiritual regeneration and realignment. However, Neptune's actions can be very confusing at first (contributing to your feelings of lack of direction), so my guess is that Pluto will bring about change in a more overt fashion.
I hope this mini-reading has been helpful. Let me know if these answers to your question have brought up more questions!
-Annie
Question from a Reader: What is the potential of my relationship?
Thank you for doing a reading for me. (Birth day, time, and place supplied) I am wondering about the potential of a new relationship with a man (birth day and place supplied). We have made a very strong connection on many levels, and I struggle with the age difference, even though it “feels right”. I have been on my own as a single parent for over 4 years, and really feel ready to have some love and some fun in my life.
Hvala još jednom,
R
Adam's Answer:
R,
Doug and you share a basic compatibility with both your Mars in Cancer. Both of you are likely to enjoy spending time together in a home setting. Sometimes, you may be a bit more “social” than him, and rational or intellectual to his emotional. Your Gemini Sun is in the third house which implies you interact with ease with people in day-to-day life. You have a rounded personality with a Sun trine Moon. With a Sun square Ascendant you might have found it difficult to work with people. With time, you should be able to conquer this square. Let me know if you want me to address this further.
You have both Mars and Mercury in the fourth house, and both North Node and Chiron in the tenth. As a mother, you will be more involved than most in parenting. The intellectual development of your kids will likely interest you a lot. While playing the “father” figure in your role as single parent, you are likely to have a healing touch. Saturn is transiting your third house and Jupiter your sixth. This suggests that at work you probably feel stressed and caught up in details. You will do yourself a lot of good for later if you use this period to learn at the job. If you want details about these issues, just ask! Since your question was about your relationship with Doug I'll talk about that some more.
Doug has a stellium in Cancer involving Sun, Moon, Mars, and Mercury. His Moon trines Neptune . This aspect makes him creative, imaginative, and sensitive to people in general. Does he come across as “poetic” sometimes? He is also a home-body, meaning that he enjoys spending time in a home setting, and values home and family. He has a basic need for security at home. He has a Venus in Leo, which makes him instinctive, giving, yet proud in love. He has a Sun square Uranus, which might prompt him to seek out working with new technology, and which adds to his creativity. Doug's need for security ties in very well with your own 10th-4th Node needs. You have a Pisces Ascendant (and Pisces is Neptune ruled). Doug, with his Moon trine Neptune, is likely to find you attractive. If you want to know more about Doug, please send me his birth time!
Doug's Saturn is conjunct your Venus, and you have Saturn opposing your own Venus. While you are with him, you might find it difficult to express the warmth and love you really feel. Da li? At the same time, these aspects might translate to a long lasting relationship. Doug's Uranus is conjunct your Moon. He probably brings out the fun loving, freedom loving side of you. You have Uranus and Jupiter in the fifth house, which is the house of play and self-expression. This is probably where your need for some fun and love in your life comes from. You might be a bit quirky in how you get these because of the influence of Uranus. A relationship with a younger man fits you! I wouldn't worry about the age difference at all. It's your way of expressing yourself to the world at large. You are unique and deserve to express yourself in your own way!
— Adam
Question from a Reader: In need of some guidance.
Annie and Adam,
I've been an avid reader of your site as a reference for my personal astrology studies for a while now. I've done my own chart (birth day, time, and place supplied) and have come across with some interesting aspects, such as Sun trine Moon, conjuncts with Sun, Venus, and Mars, and Moon conjunct Jupiter and Saturn, as well as a notable lack of squares. However, I am pretty unhappy, as I am not sure which direction to go in life right now, with my work, friends, family, or finding someone. I have a lot of family problems in that it pretty much irks me to be around them and I have done everything in my power to be anything but like them, with good results I might add. In relationships, I am seemingly unsatisfiable, I am quick to point out weakness in others and it turns me off even quicker. With friends, I devote a lot of my time and energy, making sure they are happy, giving them (good advice), and when no one else will, I'll be the one to tell them what they need to hear, even if it hurts. I am usually very appreciated at work; a hard worker and a faster learner.
I'm constantly told by my friends how unique I am, and while I see it and do enjoy the compliment, it also kind of makes me feel alienated from the rest of society in a way… which does make it kind of difficult when looking for a mate. And I guess I haven't yet found how to use that uniqueness to its fullest advantage yet. I guess the characteristic that I notice most overall is my ability to change (which is funny for a Taurus). I can change cities, friends (well not all of them), and almost personality at a moment's notice.. in fact sometimes I feel this burning urge to. I am wondering if that has anything to do with the placement of planets within my 8th House.
Basically I am just looking for a little guidance. I give it out so much but I seem to have this inability to give it to myself. My main question is what would work best with me as far as a profession? I currently do phone-based help desk work, and while I'm good at it, it isn't fulfilling (nor lucrative:) enough for me. What should I be looking for in a person, either in their personality or in their chart that would really go well with me? I seem to have an attraction to Fixed signs, my last relationship being with a Leo.
Any information would be greatly appreciated as I seem to be at a roadblock right now with everything and an opinion on this other than my own would be wonderful.
Thanks so much!!
B
Lisa's Answer:
Dear B,
It's true that if you look at your signs, your need for change is not immediately apparent in your chart. You have a Taurus Sun and Capricorn Ascendant, and your Moon conjuncts Saturn — these suggest a need for security and stability. But did you notice that your Sun and Venus are opposite Uranus? Also, as you mentioned, your Moon/Jupiter/Saturn stellium is found in the eighth house, a house that demands deep and transforming changes. Since this stellium is so close to the cusp of the ninth house, I would read it as a ninth house influence as well. The ninth house is a house of movement–physical movement as in travel, and intellectual growth as well.
The Uranus opposition to your Sun and Venus cannot be ignored. Nor should the fact that Venus, the ruler of both your Sun and Moon signs, is in the restless sign of Gemini. The Uranian influence in your chart can reveal itself in a variety of ways. There can be a deep urge to break free from tradition and from family conditioning. It can show up as a rebellious streak. Because it is an opposition, when you are expressing these traits, something may not feel right. It may go against some of your personal values and your sense of identity.
You also have South Node in Aquarius in the first house. This suggests a tendency to alienate partners–perhaps you are trying too hard to be an individual, and you come across as self-centered. Rebellion is healthy to a degree, but it can bring you further from yourself. When we rebel we can begin to forget what we truly want, because we are living life in reaction mode.
Your chart shows some potential resolutions to your inner conflicts. For one, working on developing your North Node qualities will help you find direction. Your North Node is in the seventh house–therefore, actively developing your skills of cooperation and personal attention to important people in your life will do wonders for your sense of fulfillment with life. A tendency to fall back on friends and groups, rather than developing your one-to-one personal relationships, can be your downfall. For another, you have a very pleasant trine from your Sun and Venus to the Moon/Jupiter/Saturn stellium. This stellium also sextiles Uranus. So, relief from the tension of the Uranus opposition can come from this Moon stellium in Libra. I see a common ground with these two “solutions” — Libra! Your North Node is in the seventh house (Libra's house), and your trines and sextiles to your opposition are coming from planets in Libra. My advice, therefore, is to work on your Libra qualities. Actively cultivate your ability to put yourself into others' shoes, express your ability to cooperate and compromise, give your potential and future partner personal attention rather than falling back on casual friends, acquaintances, and groups for support. Most of all, do not be afraid to show your true and unique colors! South Node in Leo people can sometimes feel very vulnerable when they are with a committed partner, finding it more comfortable to be with casual friends and groups.
I looked at the composite chart of your relationship with the Leo woman. There are certainly some satisfying points, but a troublesome configuration is present. Sun square Moon and opposite Neptune in a composite chart can suggest that one or both of the partners “fades away”. Perhaps there wasn't a clear-cut break? As far as potential partners goes, you may attract partners with strong Cancer or Leo in their charts. These two signs are found in your seventh house of partnerships, and Leo is the sign of your North Node. It is very difficult, however, to give you a formula for a potential partner.
Your Moon/Jupiter/Saturn stellium squares Neptune in the 12th house. You may have strong intuitions, seemingly coming from out of the blue, and powerful dreams. It may be difficult for you to concentrate sometimes. You may also be plagued by vague doubts and worries.
Your trines are wonderful, indeed. These will help you in your career, when you do find your calling. Have you looked at transits? Jupiter will sextile natal Pluto, the ruler of your 10th house of career, in July 2003, perhaps bringing with it some opportunities for growth and movement in your job. The ruler of your sixth house is Mercury, found in Gemini in the fifth house. A job in the communications industry, therefore, makes sense; however, its placement in the fifth house suggests you will need to express creativity in the job you do. Mercury is supported by the Moon, Jupiter, and Saturn– this reinforces the fact that you learn things easily and work quite solidly. Your Saturn transit cycle suggests that you are on your way up, but have a while to go. Saturn is solidly in your sixth house right now. It is a time of perhaps feeling overwhelmed with the “little things” you must do for your work. It is a preparation stage–when you are immersed in it, you may feel like you are not getting the recognition you'd like. But you are getting ready for a period of more exposure and recognition, beginning when Saturn moves into your seventh house (in Fall 2003).
Let me know if you have any questions about this mini-reading. I hope you found it helpful!
— Annie
Question from a Reader: Can you help?
Hi my name is Jaime and I need your help. The problem is that I feel a spiritual bond with Marques Houston of the band IMX. I have been feeling this bond for a long time. Out of the sky blue I feel like a presence and think that he is talking to me. I always wondered who my soulmate is. I mean his group's music and/or his little brother's group (b2k) music will come on and/or they would be on television. I also feel like he is trying to contact me through his videos, music, and appearances on television. The video “Beautiful” that IMX did I think that Marques is looking directly at me and my soul. It is like he is trying to tell me something and I just don't know what he is saying. I look at all the females (young and old) chasing behind him and I am always shy and think that I am ugly looking (not his type). On one of his appearances he was asked what he wanted for his birthday had his head down for a awhile and then lifted his head back up with a smile. It felt like he was talking to me spiritual and I want to know if we are soulmates. I was wondering if you could tell me if we were soulmates and if not who is my soulmate? I feel weird and I go to the chatrooms for b2k and Imx and I see these posts saying that they were dating all of them personally. They also say that they have girlfriends and talk about whether they do or not and how the girl looks and if she is a hoe or not. (Birth day and place supplied). His birthday is August 4, 1981 and I think he was born in Los Angeles, Ca. Please give me the full synopsis because people (other astrologers) only give a little and then want you to pay them a big amount of money. Hvala.
Adam's Answer:
Jaime,
You are a creative and gifted person. You have a sweet disposition and tend to empathize with friends and loved ones easily. I don't have your birth time, so it's difficult for me to give you all the details. From your birth day data, I constructed what we call a noon chart. That is, I assumed your birth time as noon for that particular day.
Your noon chart reveals that you likely have a Capricorn Sun square Saturn. Both your Moon and Venus are in Sagittarius. Both Moon and Venus are likely conjunct Neptune. Your situation brings to mind the intriguing relationship between Saturn and Neptune. Saturn represents the real world with all its limitations. It governs the physical world and reality as we know it. Neptune is associated with all aspects of the universe that are not clearly defined, illusory, delusory, mystical, and even imaginary. You need Saturn influences to live in the real world and function as a responsible citizen. On the other hand, you need Neptune to explain life itself. Another way to understand the influence of Saturn and Neptune is to consider a musician like Marques Houston himself. He needs Saturn influences in his chart to be successful, famous, make money, and put in the hard work that goes behind success. Simultaneously, he needs Neptunian energies to be creative and make music!
Now, let's consider the influences of Neptune and Saturn in your chart. Your Capricorn Sun is Saturn ruled, and as I said earlier, squares Saturn. You need to embrace your Sun and Saturn. This will help you face the realities of every day life and gain a real perspective on all aspects of your life. You have strong Neptunian influences on both your Venus and Moon. Venus rules relationships of warmth and love. This might, in a love relationship, make you project energies on the object of your love, that don't exist. I mean, you may end up imagining things about Marques Houston that are simply not true. The Moon rules your emotions. Neptune conjunct your Moon means you are emotionally creative and naturally empathetic to other people's feelings. The downside is that you naturally absorb the good and the bad from people around you. Watch out for this. You need to center yourself first. And, how do you do that? Embrace your Sun and Saturn. Get grounded; make something of your life. Only then will you be in a position to use your Neptunian gifts to truly understand love, relationships, and the world around you in a unique and enriching way!
— Adam
Question from a Reader: Could you shed some light on my relationship?
Could you shed some light on a relationship between myself – female Capricorn (birth day, time, and place supplied) and a Libra male (birth day and place supplied). Do we seem very compatible? We have been dating for about a year and 1/2 and seem to get along well – it is a long distance relationship (about 4 hours driving time), but we generally see each other every weekend. I am curious, though, his emotional nature seems very stifled and repressed and I often feel that I am actually the more spontaneous of both of us. This surprises me because of all of my heavy Capricorn influence. He is very easy-going and laid-back, but never seems to have much spontaneous enthusiasm to him or display his feelings. Are these differences shown in our charts and can they actually complement each other in the long run? Any info would be appreciated — thanks!
Adam's Answer:
Bok tamo,
Cappy, you have a rather unusual natal chart with Capricorn Sun, Mercury, Venus, and Mars in the eleventh house, and Capricorn Moon in the tenth. This suggests that you love being amongst friends and sharing your ideals and desires with them. You relate to people well and an ideal career would be in that area.
Your Libra man has Mars in Cancer. Since we don't have his birth time data, I did a noon chart, which reveals Moon in Capricorn. However, the Moon goes into Aquarius in the afternoon. Similar Capricorn Moons would suggest a basic emotional compatibility between the two of you. If he was born in the morning then he is likely to have a Sun trine Moon, which suggests a rounded person. He would come across as easy-going and laid-back. But, at the same time, he would have a Sun square Mars, thus prone to anger attacks during unexpected downturns.
You are right about his emotional nature appearing stifled and repressed. His Saturn happens to be close to his Moon. Again, I can't tell you the exact aspect or orb as we don't have his birth time. Saturn would have a dampening effect on his emotions. He would lack spontaneity for sure in displaying his feelings. He would need more in life to feel secure than others. This is not a bad thing if you understand that as his “style”. Be aware though that his Saturn is probably close to your Sun, Mars and Moon. This could mean that he dampens your “style” in multiple ways. For example, his Saturn on your Mars could make you feel restricted in the physical part of your relationship. Conversely your Saturn in very early Aquarius is likely very close to his late Capricorn-early Aquarius Moon. That would mean you restrict him expressing his feelings freely.
Saturn aspects can be restricting but at the same time may indicate a long lasting relationship. I say, find out his birth time data and we can do a better analysis of where the two of you are headed!
–Adam
Question from a Reader: What Does an Empty 5th House Mean?
Hi, I'm “I”. I am very fond of your website 'cafeastrology'.
I'm worried because in my natal chart the 5th house is empty!!! I'm 34 years old, no fiancee… and no kids. It's a matter of age, you see…
(Birth day, time, and place supplied)
At present I live in Bucharest.
Could you help me by professionally interpreting this (non)aspect in my birthchart?
Thank you so much for reading me!
Lisa's Answer:
Dear I,
First off, I want to impress upon you that having an unoccupied fifth house does not mean that you won't ever have children. There are only 10 planets and luminaries, and 12 houses to fill. People who have children (even multiple children) can have an unoccupied fifth house. Likewise, individuals with one or more planets in the fifth can go through life never having had kids.
Even so, it can be difficult to determine whether or not a person will have children by looking at their chart. There have been some theories on this subject, but I haven't yet stumbled upon anything conclusive. Some astrologers will look to the sign on the fifth house, as well as the sign of the fifth house ruler, for “fruitfulness” (or fertility). In your case, Gemini is on your fifth house cusp (you gave me a time range, and this is true for any time within that range). The ruling planet is Mercury, found in Aquarius near your Ascendant. Both signs are air signs, which are not considered to be as fruitful as, for example, water signs. However, this does NOT mean that you will not have children. Your Moon is in the fruitful sign of Cancer.
754 broj anđela
What I can say is that, since the ruler of your fifth is found near your Ascendant, if you do have children, you are likely to identify very strongly with them and with motherhood. The air signs connected with your fifth house suggest that you will focus on giving your child or children a strong intellectual upbringing. Mercury is sextile Saturn and trine Uranus, suggesting you will be able to combine solid, stable parenting with unique (and new-age) styles of nurturing. You were born under a Full Moon which means you may be somewhat temperamental, in general. You may vacillate from being strong and willful to wanting care and support from others. Others don't always understand you as a result! Your Moon trine Neptune and sextile Pluto, however, reveals you are a person with a naturally nurturing and accepting character–one who instinctively understands loved ones. Your capacity to nurture and love is exceptionally high. You have been going through a Pluto transit conjunct your natal Venus — a time when relationships, and attitudes toward love, will have been changing and transforming, and when you may have been particularly focused on love (possibly to the point of obsession). Did you go through a break-up in the past year, or was it a time of intense unrest in the area of love? Javi mi.
-Annie
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